Hi! My name is Sa-Eun Shine.
Pronoun She & They
I am the founder and coach @ the Asian Alien
I am so happy to meet you! I have dedicated lifetime of connecting with thousands and thousands of third culture humans globally, and with my inner being, to prepare a third culture space and coaching program you have never seen before!
You see…the reason why some deeper parts of us feel unseen, unheard, fragmented, misunderstood is NOT because we are broken.
Rather, it’s that we couldn’t find a place to be seen as a whole.…… until we create this space! We have been taught to suppress our multi-rooted giant tree because it triggers some old old OLD system’s insecurities.
I am hearing that we need a giant soil, a space, where we can unpack all of who we are. We get to create that space, together!
Keeping us small hurts like hell and suffocates like a very old custom like… have you heard of foot-binding? Yeah… hiding ourselves feels like… brain-binding.
It is now our job to break through and stretch big, claim our space, and re-define who we are for the world to see. How can we re-define home for us to feel at home, always? Earth is home! Not a country when we have its passport!
Our future children depend on how far we can stretch. Can we leave this planet more inclusive than when we arrived?
For example,
“Do you live here or are you visiting?”
What if it’s always both?
“Are you an American or Korean”
What if I am both and more?
“Are you white, black, brown, or yellow?”
What if that question is irrelevant to who I am? My bodysuit, my skin is only one organ to a multi-dimensional whole of who I am?
We can shift our world’s perspective.
We can shift the way we speak.
By seeing ourselves & speaking for ourselves!
Let’s lead by showing who we are!
Inside Home Dating:
home is where we are
unpack the parts of us that wants to be seen and heard, even if uncomfortable at first
redefine how we want to be seen and understood
know deep inside that our soul chose our rich and confusing multi-cultural family & life path to serve our unique purpose
whether we are settled or nomading, whether we are solo or a multi-headed unit, we are on a juicy date with who we are and what fits us
we are connected by the power of love and leverage the incredible technology available to connect our hearts across distance
know that our neurodivergence is our superpower
are Kintsugi masterpieces
are the gold of the Kintsugi of our planet
The secret to unpacking the alien inside you
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